Making the Right Decision for the Family

At key moments in moving forward on the path of life, we always need to remember the blessings that come from heaven. Find in the following article the necessary guide to keep us in family communion.


"Here I am! I stand at the door and knock. If anyone hears my voice and opens the door, I will come in and eat with that person, and they with me." Revelation 3: 20

Decision-making in family life transcends individual boundaries. At the core of these choices is the relevance of forgiveness and family unity. Family reunion, filled with love and harmony, is fundamental to charting the path to righteousness and mutual understanding.

On the one hand, the Stony Path, which leads to eternal life. This path, though rewarding, is difficult to find. Being a child of God is not an easy task; it involves facing challenges and trials. Truly following this path can bring mockery and judgment, since the decision to follow it implies a detachment from the world that not everyone understands.

Too many people live deceived, believing that the earthly path is the true life, ignoring that the true essence is in God. The most worrisome thing is when those who know His word fall into the trap of living badly, compromising their faith by choices that are far from the divine designs.


"Enter through the narrow gate. For wide is the gate and broad is the road that leads to destruction, and many enter through it. But small is the gate and narrow the road that leads to life, and only a few find it." Matthew 7: 13-14

Walking in obedience and righteousness does not imply perfection, but recognizing our absolute dependence on God to free us from sin. Our choices will make a difference in the course of our lives. The most tempting path may seem attractive, but it often leads to perdition. Let us choose, then, the path that brings us closer to Christ; his companionship is incomparable and his guidance fills us with joy and fulfillment.

Life with Christ is incomparable to ephemeral earthly promises. His legacy, embodied in his teachings, remains our beacon in the turmoil of existence. If we strive to understand and apply his wisdom in our lives, we will be on our way to a full and true existence.

Forgiveness, a powerful tool for liberation and healing, becomes even more crucial within the family. Everyone, at some point, needs to forgive and be forgiven. In doing so, we release the weight of resentment and bitterness, allowing love and harmony to reign in our hearts and homes. It is an act of humility that strengthens family ties and paves the way for coexistence and understanding.


"But if serving the Lord seems undesirable to you, then choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods your ancestors served beyond the Euphrates, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you are living. But as for me and my household, we will serve the Lord." Joshua 24:15

When faced with decisions involving the family, it is crucial to keep in mind the importance of putting past differences and conflicts behind us. Forgiveness, an act of courage and love, allows us to move forward together as a unified front, overcoming obstacles and challenges together.

The family reunion is an opportunity to consolidate ties, heal wounds and revitalize bonds that, at times, have been neglected or hurt. It is a propitious moment to rebuild and rekindle mutual trust, fostering an atmosphere of respect, understanding and affection.

By bringing the family together, forgiveness becomes the pillar that sustains peace and serenity. It is the purest manifestation of love and compassion, a bond that unites hearts and souls in a pact of acceptance and unconditional love.

"May the God who gives endurance and encouragement give you the same attitude of mind toward each other that Christ Jesus had." Romans 15:5

How do we address those differences that have created distance? What decisions do we need to make to rebuild the broken bridges in our family? Life presents us with a series of crossroads, some of them related to family relationships that have been affected by disagreements, misunderstandings or irreconcilable differences.

It is at these crucial moments that the need arises to make thoughtful and conscious decisions that seek to heal and strengthen those family ties. How can we reestablish trust? How can we rebuild communication that has deteriorated over time?

Making decisions to restore family ties goes beyond words. It involves concrete actions and the willingness of each family member to seek solutions, understand different perspectives and, above all, open the heart to forgiveness and empathy. What steps can we take to foster forgiveness and mutual understanding?

These questions lead us to reflect on the importance of family decisions, the value of patience, the need for active listening and empathy to build a solid and loving family nucleus. Ultimately, family life challenges us to make decisions that promote reconciliation, understanding and harmony, thus consolidating a home where love and respect become the fundamental pillars.