While we often feel and consider something about love and bonding, we are missing a very important part to analyze. Explore the following lines in order to feel love in your heart in a unique way.
For this very reason, make every effort to add to your faith goodness; and to goodness, knowledge; and to knowledge, self-control; and to self-control, perseverance; and to perseverance, godliness; and to godliness, mutual affection; and to mutual affection, love.” 2 Peter 1:5-7
Although sometimes we tend to look for excuses for not trusting another person or many other times, we are presented with a situation where we require an external look to nourish us with courage, we must understand that on the road of life, it is always better to walk with someone. We can try to build a network of emotional support, which is present in adverse scenarios and in the moments when we need personal help, as long as we open the love that is in our hearts.
"May your fountain be blessed, and may you rejoice in the wife of your youth. A loving doe, a graceful deer— may her breasts satisfy you always, may you ever be intoxicated with her love." Proverbs 5:18-19
Feeling accompanied by someone we trust allows us to exercise patience, active listening, and self-esteem. We must be able to understand the look of the other person, putting ourselves in his or her place, looking for the necessary empathy to be able to communicate in peace and with respect. If we manage to coincide with someone like this in life, we must cultivate day by day mutual love, care, trying to incorporate the values that nurture the path of enlightenment of the soul. If you really feel it, you will know that this person is the right one and will reciprocate every step of the way. Just as Jesus did and as you feel it in the Glory of the Holy Spirit.
“Two are better than one because they have a good return for their labor: If either of them falls down, one can help the other up.
But pity anyone who falls and has no one to help them up. Also, if two lies down together, they will keep warm. But how can one keep warm alone? Though one may be overpowered, two can defend themselves. A cord of three strands is not quickly broken.” Ecclesiastes 4:9-12
Good teamwork will feel twice as rewarding, but you will understand that there are rules of coexistence, of supporting the other person in the moments that are key in their self-improvement and individual.
To be able to give support and sustenance in the fulfillment of a dream or a personal realization is fundamental to weave the necessary confidence to be able to share a love that will multiply exponentially in the future.
Just as Jesus' life on the cross gave us his eternal blessings, this sacrifice allowed us to understand the love he had for his family.
"Wives, submit yourselves to your own husbands as you do to the Lord. For the husband is the head of the wife as Christ is the head of the church, his body, of which he is the Savior. Now as the church submits to Christ, so also wives should submit to their husbands in everything.” Ephesians 5:22-24
Knowing how to receive love is also an important part. Many times we have internal armors in our heart that hardened it preventively in order not to suffer. Some story from the past is probably still at stake and you do not want to open up 100%. Then, other issues can be defined, but you make the decision and have the necessary power of attraction to be able to feel free and with mutual love.
That trust is built, to be able to feel a unique inner softness, to be able to support you and make a consensual decision, will make you value even more your bonds and your feelings for that special person. If you have not yet managed to find that being of light in your life, do not despair.
Surely in the Heavenly Father's plan, there is someone waiting to cross your path.